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<p>序言： 时常会钻牛角尖，过度的思考导致我经常性陷入负面情绪，试图反思自己是否有些敏感。</p>
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<p><del>此方向主要是解决一些生活琐事，并试图形成解决此问题的的惯性思维。那么，问题：一个人倒是没什么，跟朋友。。。。。。。。事实上似乎并不需要我去做些什么，只是说在适当的时候给予一下就好，大家都是成年人了。</del></p>
<p><del>思考这件事似乎更有意义，这几天在晚上下班的时候，经常会去散步，累了就骑单车回家，因为出去的时候都比较晚了，所以到我回家的时候路上几乎都没啥人了，恰巧这种幽深安静的环境，总是让人不由自主的去思考生活中的点点滴滴。昨晚，在想未来一些事情的安排时，是否这件事由其他人来做的话或许会不一样呢，为什么不一样呢，或许是思考方式不一样，又或者是能力更加强大一点。我能想到的就只有这两个点，思考方式与能力，也是本篇文章的两大主要论点。都是比较抽象的，或许我并不能描述的很好，所以为了更加易懂一点，将单独描述。</del></p>
<p><del>思考方式</del></p>
<p><del>思维，我认为其实还可以分到两个分支，对人思维，对事思维。对人思维：更加感性，也就类似人们所说的情商、城府，点一我认为更多是经验之谈。对事思维：更加理性，逻辑思维，点二我认为更多的是个人习惯、性格。这两点区分开来其实都很好理解，难点在于许多事情发生的时候往往解决方式都是需要两种思维混合起来，被强行融合到一起，但是事情总得解决，也就是说，感性和理性总得有一个占上风。</del></p>
<p><del>能力</del></p>
<p><del>能力，粗略一想似乎涉及范围非常广，这个概念其实应该对个体，也就是说能力是相对人而言，其实我也将分为两种，大环境和范围环境。大范围即你能接触到的最大环境，有些人是一个省，有些人是中国，有些人是全球。范围环境则是，当下工作生活周边的人。以上两个是环境，现在我们讲具体，这里也分为两个，</del></p>
<p>想的越少越开心，想的越多越忧愁。《平凡的世界》里有一段话是这么说的：“谁让你读了这么多书，又知道了双水村以外还有个大世界……如果从小你就在这个天地里日出而作，日落而息，那你现在就会和众乡亲抱同一理想：经过几年的辛劳，像大哥一样娶个满意的媳妇，生个胖儿子，加上你的体魄，会成为一名出色的庄稼人。不幸的是，你知道的太多了，思考的太多了，因此才有了这种不能为周围人所理解的苦恼。“ 见识与能力的不称，抑或是困苦的诞生，又或是新世界的开始。面对庞大未知的世界，更需要认清自己的能力界限，手伸到那里，自己应当有数。看透与做到，并不是同一件事。</p>
<figure class="highlight plaintext"><table><tr><td class="gutter"><pre><span class="line">1</span><br></pre></td><td class="code"><pre><span class="line">不开心了？那就适当的活在当下叭。一瓶啤酒也可以很快乐~</span><br></pre></td></tr></table></figure>

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